Bertakhta Di Hati
Di hempas ombak
Terdampar buih
Menanti waktu pulang ke laut
Begitu rindu
Di pisah takdir
Meniti saat bersulam cinta
(Bridge)
Lihat… lihat…
Ke dalam mataku
Sinarnya menyala
Lihat… lihat…
Ke dalam mataku
Cintamu bertakhta (dihati)
(Korus)
Sebelum ku kenal
Dirimu siapa
Aku tak kenali
Apa itu cinta
Setelah ku kenal
Dirimu sebenar
Kau cinta sejati
Ku sandarkan jiwa
Di gilis angin
Tercarik awan
Menanti detik sebelum hujan
Begitu sendu
Di guris resah
Meniti hari bersulam tangis
(Ulang bridge)
Takkan berganjak pendirianku ini
Selagi kita tak kembali bersatu
Selamanya
Takkan berubah perasaan ini terhadapmu
Biar digugat, biar dicabar, biar dihalang
16
Feb
bertahta di hati
08
Jan
falling in love
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.
But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher.
In the game of love, it doesn’t really matter who won or who lost.
What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go!
You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you’re not part of it.
Everything happens for the best.
If the person you love doesn’t love you back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again,
for you’ll never know unless you give it a try.
You’ll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.
Love strives in hurting.
If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt all the time.
Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow.
Don’t find love, let love find you.
That’s why it’s called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall.
You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters.
If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.
Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.
It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.
The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go.
We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.
But don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time.
To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure.
But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to define love:
fall but do not stumble,
be constant but not too persistent,
share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand,
hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.
Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.
It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.
Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be.
For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that there were the things that helped you grow.
Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart.
Only love can make you cry and only love knows why.
If you’re not ready to cry, if you’re not ready to take the risk, if you’re not ready to feel the pain, then you’re not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love ‘coz every time we do, we get hurt, then i figured that’s why it’s called …
falling in love
18
Dec
words for today… :P
Not having expectations once is a while is good… no expectations, no disappointment. No disappointment, no frustrations. No frustrations, no sadness
“walau mata tak seindah bintang kejora,setiap perempuan bisa memiliki mata embun.
Teduh,sejuk.Tak gampang emosi.menyingkap tingkah laku sekitarnya secara bijak.ia selalu berprasangka baik.
Perkataannya bukan pisau yang menikam.Perkataannya adalah bara yang menyalakan semangat di dada.
Tak ada kata sia2 yang terucap dari bibirnya. ”
- moga suatu waktu aku bisa jadi perempuan kayak ini.bisa melembutkan batu yang keras.mendamaikan hati yang suram.menyinarkan hidup yang kelam.
17
Dec
The 90/10 Principle
The 90/10 Principle
Author : Stephen Covey ( Management Guru)
Have you read this before? Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life
(at least the way you react to situations). What is this principle?
10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.
How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light., but you can control your reaction. Don’t let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.
Let’s use an example. You are eating breakfast with your family. Your
daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just what happened. What happens when the next will be determined by how you react.You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for
knocking the cup over.
She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave
immediately for work.
You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and
throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your
spouse and daughter.
Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?
The answer is ” D”.
You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, “It’s ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next time”. Grabbing a towel you rush
upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.
Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both
ended different.
Why? Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don’t be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don’t have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off)
Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job. The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it.
The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.
The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
It CAN change your life!!!
13
Dec
dear me
dear me…
i used to send this msg to a very dear person..but i guess..i need to send it to myself..since im sinking in and out to the nowhere land..hoping to find way back to the right path….
******************
U are stronger then u think u are ..
U are special then u think u are ..
U are precious ..
U are loveable ..
U are caring ..
U have a wonderful pure generous heart that shines other peoples heart ..
U are wonderful person deep inside ..
Don’t give up on yourself darling ..
Allah test u because ..
He loves u so much that He wants u to always remember Him ..
He wants u to be stronger and Love him more then u love others ..
Human frequently seek Allah’s help when we are in sadness and difficulties ..
Don’t give up dear….
because there’s a lots of wonderful thing out there for u to treasure…for u to explore…
Give chance to yourself to be a better person …
Love yourself more…then u will realize how wonderful u are
Loves ;
12
Dec
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12
Dec
biarlah rahsia
Pernahkah kau bermimpi seketika
berada di tempat ku
membayangkan pahit manis
berlaku tiada siapa yang tahu
berada di tempat ku
membayangkan pahit manis
berlaku tiada siapa yang tahu
mungkin nanti kau jua merasakan
berdepan dengan kata menyesatkan
tak kan ku
tiada pertimbangan
keheningan malam membalutkan
kepayahan jiwa meluahkan
andai kau jujur memahami
tiadaku menjauhi
dan kisahku yang masih panjang
menambahkan berat yang memandang
lantasku pendam ku putuskan
biarlah rahsia
semakin aku hitung dalam cinta
tiada kuasa mampu menghalangnya
hentikan kata-kata bertulangkan dusta
keheningan malam membalutkan
kepayahan jiwa meluahkan
andai kau jujur memahami
tiada ku menjauhi
*dan kisahku yang masih panjang
menambahkan berat yang memandang
lantas ku pendam ku putuskan
biarlah rahsia
oooooo
*dan kisah ku yang masih panjang
menambahkan berat yang memandang
lantas ku pendam ku putuskan
biarlah rahsia
aku wanita punya hati nurani
yang tak dpat dibohongi
pabila cinta telah membutakan mata
dan membuat tuli telinga
apakah salah jika aku menyinta
apakah salah jika engkau ternyata
pilihan hati belahan jiwa ku ini
cinta ku ini anugerah terindah
dari yang maha kuasa
cintaku padamu tak pernah berubah
meskipun kita berbeza
apakah salah jika aku menyinta
apakah salah jika engkau ternyata
pilihan hati belahan jiwa ku ini
aku wanita aku kaum hawa
yang memang rapuh hatinya
aku wanita aku punya cinta
selayaknya manusia
apakah salah jika aku menyinta
apakah salah jika engkau ternyata
pilihan hati belahan jiwa ku ini
aku wanita aku kaum hawa
yang memang rapuh hatinya
aku wanita aku punya cinta
selayaknya manusia
apakah salah jika aku menyinta
apakah salah jika engkau ternyata
pilihan hati belahan jiwa ku ini
ku wanita
yang hanya perlu kau fahami……..
09
Dec
Maaf kan aku
Kasih maafkan aku
Tiada inginku melukaimu
Dan kini kau tinggalkan aku
Hanya dlm hatiku
Ku ungkap semua penyesalan aku
Kini ku ingin disisimu
Bila ku masih dihatimu
Simpan cintaku
Kembali la untuk ku
Kuingin selalu disisimu
Maafkanlah aku
Kasih
OOh….
